I suppose its a matter of who is playing the game. Most children will act it out regardless of what you think because the younger generation is totally obsessed with violence. I'm not saying kids are going to shoot someone for it, but most kids under 19 talk about three things.
1) Who they want to fight.
2) The petty reason they want to fight.
3) and Women/Men
So in the end its a futile effort, we may as well make the most violent and ignorant shit out there, because these kids are already screwed. You can't blame parents because times are different.