Xbox is kind of a wasteland for that unless you really like shumps or Mistwalker releases.

As for Playstation, you're in an oasis. Look up JRPGs on the PS2 and you will be satisfied for years. Ones that stick out especially include Sakura Wars: So Long My Love (fifth game in the series, but the only translated), Tales of the Abyss, Rogue Galaxy, Wild Arms 5 (even with cheesy anime style opening), Persona 3 and 4, the entire Ape Escape series, Mega Man Legends, GOD HAND (not stylized graphically but takes almost entirely from stuff like Fist of the North Star except wacky), Mana Khemia, Grandia II, and the Zone of the Enders series. Also look into the Yakuza games, they all have realistic style art, but the actual presentation is very action anime/manga with a ton of ridiculous moments.