This hex file is called "Multi-Mode 3.00" its better than stealth 2.8.
For the picture of step 1 it shouldnt be "3FFF" by the way its should be something like this "0C XX" XX= Any number
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From what i hear you saying, something goes wrong when you load the hex?. Post a couple screen shots of that issue i might be able to figure it out.
If your programming the chip without entering the CALIB value (See above) then it could fail.