No, I just mean in conversation. It's usually surprise and a silent pause if you're talking about the latest Assassin's Creed or how much time you're spent playing Fallout 4 etc etc.
I see it a fair bit at work...my boss is only a few years younger than me and there's another guy same age as me, we talk about games all the time. The young kids in there (most come and go) are kinda surprised.
I'm not competitive and the other 2 guys aren't either, we rarely play online.