
Originally Posted by
Paul Miller
Take the time you used to have for her, spend it doing something constructive. The next girl will come along in due time, and when she does, you'll be in a better mindset to deal with her, plus whatever constructive thing you've been doing will increase your chances. Get a new hobby, exercise, learn to play an instrument, read a book, anything. Be friendly, meet tons of people, and put no expectations on it.
Take me for instance. I got blown off this week by a girl I met last weekend that I was definitely into. Not as serious as what you got, but still a bummer. So this week, I got myself busy with stuff I was supposed to do, and still talk to my friends. One girl wanted to see me Wednesday, another one today, my friend wants to set me up with one of her friends ("He's cute, is he outgoing and active?" "Oh, he rock climbs." "Awesome!"), I met a couple of girls at a party last night, and another girl today at the rock climbing gym. Maybe only one of them will pan out, maybe none. But get yourself straight, and out there, and doing things for yourself. Something will happen, that's just how it is.
Social networking, and your own well-being, they're key. Helps in all aspects of life.