
Originally Posted by
polobunny
Relationship update #2984:
She finally understands why I act the same way her ex was acting when she is with her old friend Ryan. He gets priority over anyone because he did everything for her when she needed help in the past. So whenever he feels down or whatever, even if I was dying she would help him. Me (and for the purpose) her ex used to have to wait all the time. I can't count how often she told me to wait just a second and it took more than just a second. Last night I threw a damned tantrum and I feel it was needed so she could see how wrong it is. Her friend Ryan was drunk, he was bullshitting her saying he checked if she was on MSN all week long (not true since she was with me and we never saw him) and when he started crying (drunkard tears, poor little baby he must have been really sad) she ran up to him. I requested 5 minutes alone with her, she wasn't even able to give those to me...
The problem is all there because she didn't see i'm giving everything as we speak.
However as I said she understands now, I made her understand by talking today and in the future hopefully I'm not the one waiting.