Well you're handling the thread perfectly IMO. As for all the replies you are getting, we could perhaps eventually trim the thread if you wanted. Or even duplicate it, one with feedback etc contained therein and the other with just the barebones compat guide?
If you go to:
http://www.emuxhaven.net/~glide64/ and pick up Glide64, then simply:
Extract it, therein you should find the Glide64.dll as well as a folder named "Wrapper". Just put the wrapper in the root directory of your emulator, for example:
C:/programs/PJ64/ or C:/programs/1964/ etc You can also put it in the Windows system32 folder instead, but I don't do that really.
Then you just put the glide64.dll in the emulators plugin folder as usual and select it. The plugin is truley excellent IMO, definately one of the top ones for the N64.