The something or Other-out, or something or other...

[Gypsy]

[Sheras]

Yeah. You are rather calm and I associate Ryan with calm people.

Damn you were supposed to say no

[Gypsy]

I mean.......

[Warrior]

Thanks,Warrior. Well, I don't want to eat dinner now.

Sorry Merry but I HAD to post that, was just too damn good to not share with everyone

[Spose']

I really hope my online dating experience goes something like this.

Spoiler warning:

So I've been using OKC for a while now to ultimately try and find the person I wouldn't mind spending the rest of my life with. I'm a pretty easy going guy that always tries to be positive and give people the benefit of the doubt. I've also been using OKC for so long, that my highest possible match is 99.9%; I've been trying to get it higher, but I think that may be the cap. Lol

Well, my dating experience so far has been pretty terrible to say the least. It's been so bad and colorful that I'm being encouraged to write a book about my dating life so far and my musings on the subject. I've never been to third Reddit before, but I've heard stories and was curious to see if my my experience is normal, or if I have terrible luck/taste in women.

Below is a summarized list of what I've experienced so far from 5 years of using OKC. Some of them are specific moments, and some happen almost every time.

Women pulls a knife on me so show me she's armed
Mentions taser or gun in her purse randomly for same reason
Lied about fiancé and baby and attempted to have sex with me in front of her 7 year old.
wanted me to rape her until she bled and when I tried to leave, she started punching me to try and provoke me.
red flags during first date. Left early. She followed me home and stayed in my drive way for 2 hours making sure I didn't leave before coming to the door and knocking.
Several "you're too nice/good for me. Good bye forever"
several "let's be friend/never hear from again"
several monosyllabic responses (why reply if you're that uninterested?)
found out she was a nazi when she said she was glad she "found a good white man to give me the aryan babies I deserve"
an over all emotionally abusive relationship of 3 years that ended when I discovered she stopped taking birth control and was raping me in my sleep to get pregnant so she could quit her job and be a stay at home mom.
several women who just wanted FWB that advertised as looking for "him"
a women who was actually part of a lesbian couple masquerading as a straight single who were looking for a donor for their pregnancy.
several stalkers (we're talking Internet, real life, and GPS tracking.)
several women that only wanted 1-2 dates because "they were lonely and I was nice to them".

I know that's a lot of randomly stuff and it'll come off as bs, but I promise you that this has been my dating life so far. Is there anybody out there that can relate or tell me that this is normal?

[Sheik]

No spose, just no.

I need to stop trying to drink with the fishes, I can't keep up and now I feel terrible.

[Sheik]

Just sayin Dez Bryant didn't feel the same about the packers.

[Iamerror]

Hi Sword. Wow. Those women sound frightening. I'm a girl, and I feel freaked out.Maybe online dating is a bad idea,S'pose.

[deadlegion]

I'm not reading anything disturbing.

[Warrior]

Hi Sword. Wow. Those women sound frightening. I'm a girl, and I feel freaked out.Maybe online dating is a bad idea,S'pose.

Its not that bad, my dad back in the day found plenty of women who he got with IRL awfully quick, online dating is not as bad as people make it out to be, just need to find the right site for the kind of people you are interested in meeting

[Iamerror]

I'm not reading anything disturbing

Not surprised. I guess,but there seems to be a lot of crazy people.

[Gypsy]

Its not that bad, my dad back in the day found plenty of women who he got with IRL awfully quick, online dating is not as bad as people make it out to be, just need to find the right site for the kind of people you are interested in meeting

One of my cousins met the love of her life back in like...I want to say 03 or so. Halfway across the country too. They are still married.

[Iamerror]

That's sweet,Gypsy.

[deadlegion]

All of that in 5 years is unlikely though. One instance was 3 years.

Crazy chicks aren't always that bad though. There are plenty of good times because of the craziness, but when it goes really bad it's way out there

[Iamerror]

Is this from experience,DL?