
Originally Posted by
brit
I don't think you read my post correctly. I'm not suggesting you leave. I'm giving you the advice you'll NEED to follow in order to get the ball rolling as smoothly as possible WHEN the baby arrives. If you fail to do any of the things on this list, you will struggle. Hell, I had a job, a car, a wife, two cats, and a two-bedroom apartment and I STILL struggled. WITH NO KIDS.
Basically, what I'm suggesting is that you get your main shit together while you are waiting for the baby, save up, and be prepared ahead of time, that way nothing can burden you once the kid is there. And in the event that you guys don't get the kid, well you're in a better position for a future together because you'll have your shit together.