
Originally Posted by
Prude
Damn damn I want babies really bad but I still don't think I'm responsible enough to support myself (even though I've lived on my own since I was 18) everyone is jumping you rn but I just sincerely hope that this desicion you are about to make is down to earth. Don't ever let people pressure you into something you aren't ready for. Sometimes you have to be agressive when you assert yourself (as it sounds like these parents are clearly not in their right mind, lol sorry) and do not back down.
You should develop a good career path first and focus on YOUR life. Having to be responsible for another life form is super awesome, but when you are not ready for it, it can easily leave your life, and the baby's life, in shambles.
Yes we are supposed to have babies and have familes, I eagerly await that, but I will never, ever make that desicion until I have my own career path and have finished my degree.
I do not know you or your fam or girlfriend...but I really, really really urge you. Please think about this from a logical standpoint, and not an emotional one.