Quote Originally Posted by Drageuth View Post
That kind of sucks, man. Sorry to hear that. It's unfortunate that some people are like that, but quite honestly if he's that inattentive when he only has to see you every once and a while, it's probably better that he wasn't around too much; imagine how much that indifference would hurt on a day-to-day basis.

If having kids is that important to you, then I would re prioritize your list to have them earlier. Just be prepared to be piss broke all the time; that will come whether you have a good job or not. Seriously.
If you feed them rice, the problem is solved ! Trust me, it's better if they aren't around if they are a worthless parent. One of my step-brothers (a 5th cousin would be more important if I had one) has kids and he constantly harasses them, it's a bad situation to say the least.