Quote Originally Posted by Soeru
rape
n.

1. The crime of forcing another person to submit to sex acts, especially sexual intercourse.
2. The act of seizing and carrying off by force; abduction.
3. Abusive or improper treatment; violation: a rape of justice.


Well, it does say "force", but just because someone sais they allow you to bone him/her... is it still considered rape if you do it in a violent "rape-like" manner? I'm sure someone could still be arrested for that.
Forcing them to have sex, not having forceful sex.