Yeah I was kidding around, pick whichever looks better to you. I did however spend a few hours with the ESO beta and wasn't very impressed, but then again I'm not exactly the #1 Elder Scrolls fan around here.
But the thing is, single player ES games do have a certain atmosphere to them, and a bunch of players running and jumping all over the place like crazy in ESO kinda ruined the immersion for me, while in FFXIV everything felt more alive, and since most of the game is designed as a solo experience players don't feel as intrusive. But that's just based on my tastes, could be completely different for you.