I just don't want one...
This thread is about something that people keep nagging me about on and on everytime to the piont it's getting realllyyy annoying...so, i decided to talk about it since i'm a little bored also...
For some reason, alot of people ask me if i have a girlfriend, and i say no...they are astonished (for some reason...), they then say why....and why i don't try to get one. I tell them i don't want one...they are even more astonished (but in a freakish way now). Then, (here it comes...) they ask me if if i'm gay...and that is SOOOOOO annoying!!! The answer is no, no, no! I try to explain to them why, but after that, they i've noticed they've started going near me less, and somtimes, i think that they are avoiding me!
This is sooo irratating!
Why i don't want a girlfriend you may ask? NOT because i'm gay, but simply because i don't want one, for a few select reasons...
1. Too much responsibility. If it's one thing i'm never really good at, is keeping promises, getting there on time and such. I'm not that much of a responsible guy (though some people don't believe this).
2. I simply don't want one. I just simply don't feel as attracted to the female gender as much as...um...let's just call them "normal" men...are. Don't get me wrong, i do find some females "pretty" and...maybe on a few occasions, how you would say "hawt." But i just don't feel like amking a move or somthing like that. I plan to live a lone life (with friends though), raising a family would be too much for me...i can't imagine me ever being a good father, nonetheless a good husband either.
3. Relationships. Girls don't really like me anyways. and they probably never will. Some who do are just friends.
4. Protection. If anything were to ever happen (somone hits on my girlfriend are kidnaps them or fights me for them) I'd probably get smacked insides out...I'm, a very weak guy. This would probably fall under the "responsiblity" section
5. nervousness...yes...i'm am a nervous, maybe even a little shy guy who holds back on things like these.
6. Lazy. I'm a very lazy guy who can't really do things right either. I mess up alot, and often can't find time to do things (like the "dates"), even though much of that time is spent on sitting on my arse playing games...
7.No talent. I don't see why a girl would ever like me anyways, i'm not that very talented at anything beside drawing anime (which is sorta a skill that attracts friends...and only girls with much hobbies on anime, and i'm not that good). I am an extremely boring guy. My friends say though that i have a good, and nice personality, and funny personality. But i don't think that'll compensate for all the other things...
8. I'm a liar. I tell big lies, mostly because i seem to screw up alot...
9. Ugly? some women don't really care how men look...or how big their wee-wee are. But some do...but at least i do have a fairly large wee-wee :X
10. I want to live lone. I don't really want anyone living with me. I do want things, but no girlfriend, cause eventually i'll have soemone living with em or even make a family...not like i want a family, which brings me next too.
11. parenthood. Again, this falls under responsibility and anything else similar.
12. I don't care about sex...infact i don't see the real deal about sex at all. Sure you get this amazing feeling in you balls, but seriously...if that's all you care about, then you might not make a good husband...(just my opinion). And that "great feeling" only lasts awhile anyways.
14. my "alter-ego" personality. I act like a fool somtimes...especially around females. They consider immature, i myself also consider myself immature and even annpying somtimes. But i really can't help it, if they can't accept me for who i am, then i don't like them. Besides, most of my friends think i'm ok...(yes i do annoy my friends from time-to-time)
I think i have more reasons locked up somwhere in my head...anyways. I think this'll be enough for now... anyways, i've decided, ever since i started to learn excessibly what relationships were all about, i just didn't feel like i wanted one...I lack the ability and knoledge of what love is and love itself...in which i don't find myself attractive or attracted to anyone. Nor do i want to be. I'm sorry if this post is in any way stupid, selfish, pure spam or anything else like that. You may post all the badest comment, insults or loser disses about me all you want, i've already made my mind anyways.
Oh...and let me remind you...I'M NOT GAY!!!!!!!!
Originally Posted by MoloMowChow
erm ok"
j/k