To all the guys in the forums...

Recently, I have been studying the behavior of those girls we call "perfect" or that are very beautiful. I have talked with them, asked them certain things (most of those questions were really personal) and such to understand them. Then, I found some answers to their behavior... some you may know, some you think "plain stupid"... some that would leave you like "what...?"

1-These girls are usually ignored or have friends that do their best to be social, since they feel like they don't fit.

2-Some of them feel like if they were the last Coke in the desert, only because they are really lonely and empty of heart.

3-These girls have a hard life making true friends, because they are "hot" and criticize girls they think that are ugly.

4-Question the succes of "uglier women" of finding men that would suit better for them since they feel more attracted.

5-Most of the time they are alone since nobody wants to talk to them as we associate the words "pretty girl" with "**** eater". Not true.

6-They feel as seen like sexual objects... some of they say they like everybody looking at them but, it is not true. Ignore them and watch them fall into a million pieces like cheap glass.

7-Never let anyone pick on you in school, most of these girls prefer a brave kid from a antisocial one. Or an punching bag.

8-Most of them like games, but you cannot pretend to talk to them about it as they want to keep it secret. Nor anime, that's taboo in their social circles.

9-Not all blonde girls are dumb. Believe me. Be sweet with blondes.

10-Treat them like if they were one more person in the world, don't put them on a pedestal in your mind, try to be confident in front of them and you'll reduce them to what they are, simple humans with a LOT of fears.

11-If one shows interest in you... don't try to be a Romeo. Be concious of the interest, but a bit selfish and ignorant.

12-Do some exercise, these girls want a guy that matches with them physically.

13-Russian girls are really open minded and sweet. And more of them are beautiful.

And 3 more things:

Remember that flesh is vulnerable, that what is beautiful today can be horrible tomorrow.

Try to open your heart to them, don't try to be a clown. Nor too poetic. Be a normal person.

Look for a girl that has a beautiful heart. Physique does not matter. And you will be happy.

If you wish to add something to this list or have a question or comment, go for it.. this is not only a forum of gaming it is a forum of friends.

Interesting...

That must've taken some reasearch, huh?

ive already known all this for quite some time... just through talking to them personally. whether i have followed all of this is a big no...

Girls. When I want one, I'll get one. I have other priorities.

This thread is making me wonder as to how many male members this forum has..

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Originally posted by Schutzstaffel
This thread is making me wonder as to how many male members this forum has..

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its about 98% i can only think of 3 female members...

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Originally posted by Schutzstaffel
This thread is making me wonder as to how many male members this forum has..

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There are girls, but they post from time to time. Like 6 or 7 I've seen.

14-These girls like sex & porn, but to a lesser extent... it is hard to get them to talk as they can get real shy... and trying to talk about this with them would sound like an insinuation and may get extremely offended.

You obviously haven't met the females at my youth group, evil little bastards with sick minds (well some of them are).

15. The "perfect" girl may not be all that perfect. A persons true self is always hidden from the public and always shown where no one can see them.

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Originally posted by Lord Riff Raff
You obviously haven't met the females at my youth group, evil little bastards with sick minds (well some of them are).

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Sounds like me! :evilgrin:

Ok.. good to know... when i actuly want a girl friend.. i guess...

16- Girls like a guy thats a little sensitive and a little shy, but making them laugh and convincincing them that they can trust you in order to make them comfortable around you can go to great extents.

Good Job Galcian

/me won't even get started on Schutzstaffel and her twisted little mind. ;)

I have a different perspective of what perfect is, thus making any opinions I have on this thread irrelevant. That's a great deal of information you collected though, Galcian. =)

I take each girl individually, they are far too difficult to pidgeon-hole satisfactorily. Having said that thats a fairly conclusive 'report' youve put together there Galcian, so good work fella. There are quite a few pointers in there that I can relate to my own personal experiences, owing much to my foolishness of the time.

I have come to the conclusion that relationships are a bunch of ****, that cause nothing but hurt, pain and heartache in the end. Love is over-rated...

Love isnt overated if Love is in a good mood. Get on the wrong side of her though and it all becomes a very different story.

Unfortunately as far as I'm concerned most females are nothing but trouble. Yes I know the same thing can be said about most males (and to be quite honest I agree most males are a bunch of... ) but in the long run it's the males who are true and who are loving and caring that end up getting hurt. A girl will go out with one guy and get heartbroken and all that other stuff, then she'll sit there and think all guys are alike and use that to her advantage against the next guy she goes out with. Also there's those pretty girls who sit there and date geeky azz males and stuff just cause they have that cash money. Most of the girls I have been with were either nuthing but trouble or just money hungry I have yet to be with a girl who actually cares about just me not what's in my pants or in my pockets and also doesn't care about how you look or dress.

I also agree with clive's statement above...

girls are people too... yeah i agree with that.... don't be shy around them, chances are they do want to talk to you....

plus if you think they hate you, they probably don't... it's just your fears drawing a picture in your mind...

The more I think of love, the more I want to be single for the rest of my God forsaken life.

I'm not trying to be self-absorbed, but in the long run, taking care of a woman, not to mention the definate possibility of taking care of kids also would be too much. I'll get in the way of my training and I don't want them hurt.

I may be a evil bastard but I never wish wrong to others (or at least those that don't annoy me :evilgrin: )

You can't go through your life without love. Eventually, you will love someone, and if you don't do something about it or make the wrong decisions, you will be hurt. It's just the way it is. Love isn't overrated, it just needs to be treated properly.

true... love is love, i know that it is noble not to love to save people from getting hurt, but part of love is also taking risks...

i dunno... i'm blabbering

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Originally posted by Super Bagel
Girls. When I want one, I'll get one. I have other priorities.

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I hope it isn't men :P

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Originally posted by Hangman
I have come to the conclusion that relationships are a bunch of ****, that cause nothing but hurt, pain and heartache in the end. Love is over-rated...

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Hear hear! Doesn't it just feel like that sometimes...

Its a game you cant help but play, much as some of us want out.

Well said BTZ...Most of them are a problem. Some of them are good....it's very dificult to decide from the outside how her behaviour is. And yes ofcourse, by some you can see it.
If you find a nice girl, who is perfect in your eyes. You'll ask her out, she says yes, you go something to drink, you'll get a relationship. All goes well, until a certain point in the realtionship, the true you and the true her comes out. And that coulb be a problem. In that case, you can't stand her, but you also love her. So, the choise you make....both are hard. If you just give up the whole thing, and go on with your life is one choise, the other is trying to rescue the relationship by making rules or something.

Like BTZ said: It's just all a game, with no lives and continues left

(I don't know what number) You can have many female friends that seem perfect and not like them. But should you say one bad thing about them, there goes your friendship.

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Originally posted by CoLLapseD
I hope it isn't men :P

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Ha. No, I don't like men. No, really.....

Love is a complete waste of time. Humanity is going downhill but no one does anything.

Love is my lowest concern at this time, my training means alot more.

Your training for? It seems to be all you talk about.

Oh, I am training in kenjutsu which is the art of sword fighting. I really want to succeed in it so I'm putting alot of time training in order to be more effective.

It's taking it's toll however but I'm willing to pay the price.

That's great that you are a cynical bastard and all, but love isn't all that bad when it comes down to it. It's a great thing when you find someone you can share it with, and while probably not the most important thing around, it's certainly more important then training yourself to do something you'll likely never use. And why does it have to be one or the other anyway? Why can't you find someone to love and still train? Seems a little stupid to let to things that have little to do with each other effect wether or not you can do both....

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Originally posted by Cyberxion
That's great that you are a cynical bastard and all, but love isn't all that bad when it comes down to it. It's a great thing when you find someone you can share it with, and while probably not the most important thing around, it's certainly more important then training yourself to do something you'll likely never use. And why does it have to be one or the other anyway? Why can't you find someone to love and still train? Seems a little stupid to let to things that have little to do with each other effect wether or not you can do both....

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Amen.
Well said Cyberxion.

Not really, I have been pushed aside before. It's not the first time but I really not letting it affect me.

My main concern is the fact the way that humanity is going downhill. I have been reading Walden (great book by the way) and I noticed that what has happened in the past is happening right now with new crap that's going on. It's pissing me off that people act like complete idiots without thinking of their options.

Like I said, my training has been getting to me, my body aches alot with some breathing problems. I'm talking a break for a while before I start again.

Yeah, I may be cynical but............well ok I am cynical

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Originally posted by Nitramuse
Well said BTZ...Most of them are a problem. Some of them are good....it's very dificult to decide from the outside how her behaviour is. And yes ofcourse, by some you can see it.
If you find a nice girl, who is perfect in your eyes. You'll ask her out, she says yes, you go something to drink, you'll get a relationship. All goes well, until a certain point in the realtionship, the true you and the true her comes out. And that coulb be a problem. In that case, you can't stand her, but you also love her. So, the choise you make....both are hard. If you just give up the whole thing, and go on with your life is one choise, the other is trying to rescue the relationship by making rules or something.

Like BTZ said: It's just all a game, with no lives and continues left

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That's another highly cynical view. It's not a game, but at the same time it's not a perfect science. Matters of the heart are hardly easy, but the reward you get in a great relationship with a loving companion is worth the occasional harship you'll endure along the way.

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Not really, I have been pushed aside before. It's not the first time but I really not letting it affect me.

My main concern is the fact the way that humanity is going downhill. I have been reading Walden (great book by the way) and I noticed that what has happened in the past is happening right now with new crap that's going on. It's pissing me off that people act like complete idiots without thinking of their options.

Like I said, my training has been getting to me, my body aches alot with some breathing problems. I'm talking a break for a while before I start again.

Yeah, I may be cynical but............well ok I am cynical

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I honestly think you are also a little bent as well, but I'll save that till someone creates a topic about it.

What does that mean, I'm concentrating on something that is very important to me. I have love interests before and it failed thankfully (I would consider it my young and stupid stage in life)

I have other priorities in life, but I won't completely give up on love, but right now, I much rather train.

That's fine and dandy, but your previous posts gave me the impression that the two couldn't co-exist with you. And it's really not your training that qualifies you as being bent in my opinion, it's the fact that you seem to be training in the antipation of something. You make constant references to how the world is going downhill, when really all the problems we are living through now have existed through the ages. The state of the world may not be the ideal utopia that people would like it to be, but it's certainly not screwed up enough to have me training swordfighting rather then going out to find a meaningful relationship with a woman...

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Originally posted by battousai
plus if you think they hate you, they probably don't... it's just your fears drawing a picture in your mind...

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But what if they frequently say to you, "I hate you, I hate you, I hate you soooo muuuuuuuuuuuuch, I HATE YOU! Nowgooffsomewhereanddieacruelandhorribledeathpleas e"?



Me. Girls. Neither one understands the other.

17. A prostitute can simulate everything that a woman could possibly have of value.

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Originally posted by KnightofNachos
17. A prostitute can simulate everything that a woman could possibly have of value.

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what kind of view is that!? and you're a retrodood? sheesh

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Originally posted by Jimmy Onestroke
But what if they frequently say to you, "I hate you, I hate you, I hate you soooo muuuuuuuuuuuuch, I HATE YOU! Nowgooffsomewhereanddieacruelandhorribledeathpleas
e"?



Me. Girls. Neither one understands the other.

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hmmm... maybe she's joking?