Originally Posted by
Drageuth
Pretty much this. It really depends on the kind of relationship you are in. My last girlfriend absolutely hated porn (she was one of those "low self worth" type of people that think they are fat and ugly all the time even when they aren't), so porn there would have been a bad idea. My relationship before that, though, we used porn as a means to explore different things. Sometimes (again depending on the person) you can find things that they might be interested in trying, but can't quite verbalize or are embarrassed to ask to try, by the porn that they watch.
It really depends on the people in the relationship, though. It's not a matter of "well, I could have sex or watch porn, guess I'm going to watch porn."
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