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Nachos, I have to admit, you do know how to be a cool/cynical/funny guy. All of your answers apply... I'll read again later that because I laughed to death.
You are different man due to your experiences in life. But I was one that lacked the confidence to go and talk with such girls... but when I learned about them, I learned that I wasn't missing much. The dilemma of humanity. Beauty over mind... I'll take half of each and find the perfect person for me, one that I can understand (to an certain extent), and communicate my emotions and feelings effectively, and vice versa.
19. Always listen. Talk less and listen. It clears a lot of doubts and helps to learn rather interesting thinsgs about these girls.
The funny side of this is that the girl I'm talking to is a normal girl, but one that is funny, brave and a bit sarcastic... but with a big heart.
To all of you that say love isn't for me: It's the age. You are still young. It's a process. But remember that you need to be confident in life to reach whatever goals you have. Nothing is impossible, you just need the tools to accomplish it. Find them. Or just grow up...
These are based partly in my point of view people, but the interviews were full of more agressive questions and some rather strange conversations.
About the sick little girls who are evil and hate me... check their family/friends background/relationship a bit. Helps to understand them to a certain extent. or just send them to hell.:P
Love... what is love? Chemical reactions. Some natural behavior. What we feel for somebody or something. A reason to live... and a reason to die. :D
One thing everyone is forgetting though... is the fact that females are equal to men if not better. I mean sure they do cause lot's of drama but not all of them are bad just like not all guys are bad of course finding a decent guy is a lot rarer than finding a decent girl. I don't mean decent in the way of looks either, I mean decent in the sense of caring, loving, on the level, honest, atleast somewhat emotional, doesn't hit a girl and so on lol. Looks do help but there is 2 sayings that I know of that explain how important looks are to be considered...
" It's not what's on the outside that matters, it's what's on in the inside that truly matters "
" Beauty is only skin deep "
There is other ones I know but this post isn't about quotes lol so I'm just gonna keep to the point. The point really is that both sexes in all reality treat each other unfairly and unjust. It's part of our nature I guess I dunno, all I know is This is life.
Females in general are alot more emotional than males.
We tend to seek for someone who is loving, caring, honest, and is in their own opinion, attractive. When we search for men.. which is quite a task to do, and in most times.. or atleast from what I have observed, women tend to wait for a male who has the qualities they are looking for, or settle with someone who may be alittle lower than their personal standards.
And, depending on the girl, she may be emotionally unavailable to the male(or female) she desires.. Alot of those things will depend on that girls history, family and experiences. Alot of girls don't like to be rushed either, the best thing to do would be to get to know her and listen to what she has to say about herself or how she is feeling..
Love flourishes with growth and experience. :drool:
That may well be true but what most females don't tend to realize is that there is some guys if very few out there that are like that too.
Thanks, I was hoping no one would take my posts completely seriously. Certain events have given me quite a crude and dark sense of humor. I've also learned that I wasn't missing much, but damned if you're going to convince my feelings of that.Quote:
Originally posted by Galcian
Nachos, I have to admit, you do know how to be a cool/cynical/funny guy. All of your answers apply... I'll read again later that because I laughed to death.
You are different man due to your experiences in life. But I was one that lacked the confidence to go and talk with such girls... but when I learned about them, I learned that I wasn't missing much. The dilemma of humanity. Beauty over mind... I'll take half of each and find the perfect person for me, one that I can understand (to an certain extent), and communicate my emotions and feelings effectively, and vice versa.
The thing I hate the most about being a guy, or just being human, is that despite all the logic and resistance I put into it, I can't help but treat attractive women a little better than the not so attractive. I despise myself when I do it, but I can't help it, ugh... The fight between chemical and emotional, that's me.
actually, thats a proven phycological fact. men are majoritily (sp?) visually stimulated while women are majorility emotionally stimulated. different people have a different balance of these two, but most of the time, this rings true. as i said, its completely possible for it to be the complete oposite too, this is just the most common factor...Quote:
Originally posted by Schutzstaffel
Females in general are alot more emotional than males.
EDIT: the source is a well reknown phycologist....