I need a lot of help. Seriously.

[Ace Ventura]

So I'm having some relationship issues. Like a lot.

Anyway, my girlfriend of a month or 2 that I'm dating right now, she's really clingy, and we barely see each other. And idk, right now I feel like we're growing apart. It kinda sucks, 'cause she's the first girl that I've had in a while now, mostly 'cause the last girl I dated was a whore. And no one likes me here. Anyway, idk how to break it to her that I may dump her or are gonna dump her...

Can you guys help me?

Yeah, call me a dumbass for going on the internet for help. But I need it. After the fight with my friends that I had today. (Fist fight, I won.) They don't want anything to do with me.

And this is the only forum I'm on. So guys, please help me...

[luffy4]

listen, if you have to fight your friends in order to stay with her, shes not worth it, hence the phrase "bros before hoes"

[Dr Mario]

listen, if you have to fight your friends in order to stay with her, shes not worth it, hence the phrase "bros before hoes"

Words cannot begin to express how retarded that sentiment of yours is.

[TheRealSpiders]

Words cannot begin to express how retarded that sentiment of yours is.

In that context, yeah it was a bit retarded.

@GHO: What are you fighting with your friends about? If it's something retarded, they're obviously not very good friends.

[deadlegion]

Tell your GF you just want to be friends.......and still have sexual relations

Fight with your friends some more, and maybe pick fights with random strangers as well

[Slacker Magician]

So I'm having some relationship issues. Like a lot.

Anyway, my girlfriend of a month or 2 that I'm dating right now, she's really clingy, and we barely see each other. And idk, right now I feel like we're growing apart. It kinda sucks, 'cause she's the first girl that I've had in a while now, mostly 'cause the last girl I dated was a whore. And no one likes me here. Anyway, idk how to break it to her that I may dump her or are gonna dump her...

Can you guys help me?

Yeah, call me a dumbass for going on the internet for help. But I need it. After the fight with my friends that I had today. (Fist fight, I won.) They don't want anything to do with me.

And this is the only forum I'm on. So guys, please help me...

You tell her you want to stop seeing her, it's not hard.

[luffy4]

ok, the way i said it may be stupid but you get the idea

[Dr Mario]

ok, the way i said it may be stupid but you get the idea

No, its the sentiment itself thats stupid. Not just your poor phrasing.

[Pickles]

No, its the sentiment itself thats stupid. Not just your poor phrasing.

Stop it.

You tell her you want to stop seeing her, it's not hard.

Ah it can be horribly hard.

[Devi]

Just try to be mature and calm about it. Tell her that you think you're drifting apart and that you don't want to force a relationship. Say something that makes it seem like you want to break up for her sake, like you feel you can't offer her the kind of companionship she needs and that it's unfair of you to lead her on when you're just not sure where you're at in life.

Just remember to be nice. It's never fun being broken up with, and the smoother it goes now, the less drama you'll have a week later. But don't dance around it, either. It's unfair to both of you to force something that you're not sure of.

Good luck

[luffy4]

No, its the sentiment itself thats stupid. Not just your poor phrasing.

ok, so your saying if you ever got a girlfriend and she demanded you ditch your friends, you would do it?

[deadlegion]

ok, so your saying if you ever got a girlfriend and she demanded you ditch your friends, you would do it?

Have you got more intel than is originally stated? Or are you making assumptions?

Just curious.


Also, has anyone seen my pants?

[HeavyMetalGamer]

So I'm having some relationship issues. Like a lot.

Anyway, my girlfriend of a month or 2 that I'm dating right now, she's really clingy, and we barely see each other. And idk, right now I feel like we're growing apart. It kinda sucks, 'cause she's the first girl that I've had in a while now, mostly 'cause the last girl I dated was a whore. And no one likes me here. Anyway, idk how to break it to her that I may dump her or are gonna dump her...

Can you guys help me?

Yeah, call me a dumbass for going on the internet for help. But I need it. After the fight with my friends that I had today. (Fist fight, I won.) They don't want anything to do with me.

And this is the only forum I'm on. So guys, please help me...

I don't know what your age is, but I am guessing you are around 16? or 17?

It sounds like you are pretty stressed out over this, and it bothers you, which I can understand.

You may need to just tell her that maybe its time you guys just stay friends, and if that is too much and she can't handle it, then you might have to move on.

As for your friends, why are they fighting with you? Do they not like her? Because if your friends are fighting you physically, they aren't worth your time either.

You also mentioned that nobody likes you around there? Why is that?

One thing you want to avoid is someone that is controlling in your life, especially when it comes to a relationship, you don't need someone telling you what to do, when to do it, and who to talk to, that is being pussy whipped, and I have seen friends of mine deal with it, and its sad to watch. So if she is forcing you to not hang out with your friends, hate to break it to you, but that is not right, as long as your not screwing around with some other female, she shouldn't be so clingy to you.

I wish you the best, because it is very very hard to leave a relationship.

[Dr Mario]

ok, so your saying if you ever got a girlfriend and she demanded you ditch your friends, you would do it?

Funny how the goalposts seem to be shifting now.

[Devi]

ok, so your saying if you ever got a girlfriend and she demanded you ditch your friends, you would do it?

Why is it assumed that she's making him give up his friends at all? Did you not read the line "we barely see each other" in the OP?

I'd be willing to bet the fight had nothing to do with that...or maybe anything involving relationships. I think he was just trying to show he's having a shitty time right now.